Verbal hammers won't let up, let alone shut up! They go on and on and on and on. They never let you forget anything bad you ever did in your life. They constantly bring up the past. They verbally torture you to the point where you can't wait to leave them.
Even if you “Shock 'Em and Rock 'Em,” they won't be shocked and they won't be rocked. Like the Energizer Bunny, they just keep going! You feel like you're about to explode because there is no way out—they can't even hear you.
You may apologize a hundred times, and they will never hear you. They may stop for a while, but rest assured that they will continue to hammer you at some later date. These people are usually filled with inner rage and have a “victim” approach to life, which makes them feel that people are always doing them wrong. It's virtually impossible for them to break their view of themselves as well as their hammering unless they undergo some major counseling. Often times their hammering has very little to do with you. They may be generalizing a past negative experience (perhaps one they had with another person) onto you.
Even if you “Shock 'Em and Rock 'Em,” they won't be shocked and they won't be rocked. Like the Energizer Bunny, they just keep going! You feel like you're about to explode because there is no way out—they can't even hear you.
You may apologize a hundred times, and they will never hear you. They may stop for a while, but rest assured that they will continue to hammer you at some later date. These people are usually filled with inner rage and have a “victim” approach to life, which makes them feel that people are always doing them wrong. It's virtually impossible for them to break their view of themselves as well as their hammering unless they undergo some major counseling. Often times their hammering has very little to do with you. They may be generalizing a past negative experience (perhaps one they had with another person) onto you.
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