You both connect with one another, you’ve returned glances and smiles, but what to do you next? You’re paralyzed with fear. You rationalize that you are feeling this way only because you are “a shy person.” Well, if that’s what you want to believe about yourself, you may as well crawl into a hole and live there.
Life is to be lived. Opportunities are to be taken and people are to be met. If you have ever felt like kicking yourself, even years later, for not making that first move and saying something, you are not alone. To make sure this situation never happens again, re-label yourself and remove the word “shyness” from your vocabulary. You have nothing to be shy (insecure) about anymore.
Of course, you have to have something to say, and in the rest of this chapter you’ll learn what to say to break the ice.
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