People want to hear good things about themselves, but there is a limit. When you are constantly fawned over and praised relentlessly with extraordinary passion and emotion, you need to be careful.
Sugary fawners have a huge smile and are overly excited to see you, gesturing excessively and hovering around you. They tell you wonderful things about yourself that you know are exaggerations. Most of these sugary fawners tend to be insincere and manipulative. Usually they want something from you, and they will break this news to you well after they are in your good graces. Watch how they turn on you when your answer is “no” or they don't get what they want. Suddenly their sugary words and attitude become salty or even bitter. Often the Sugary Fawners make you feel as though you are their best friend. This is often calculated, as they most likely want something from you or want you to do something for them. They often pull the rug out from under you either after they get what they wanted from you or don't get what they want. They will continue to be sugary if they think that they can get more from you. Deep inside, they really might not like you, but they are being overly nice to get what they want from you.
These manipulative tactics date back to infancy. The dynamic of many families is that of manipulating or “bribing” a family member to do something. Parents tell their children, “If you are well behaved, I'll buy you….” Children act cutesy in order to get a certain positive reaction from their parents, which results in positive consequences. If their charm doesn't work, they will often cry or throw a tantrum. Many people carry this manipulative behavior into adulthood. This is how some people deal with the world and with people around them.
They are insincere people who are usually backstabbers. They will often become “Trashers” and sing your failures and weak points to others as opposed to singing your praises and strong points. So beware and be aware!
Sugary fawners have a huge smile and are overly excited to see you, gesturing excessively and hovering around you. They tell you wonderful things about yourself that you know are exaggerations. Most of these sugary fawners tend to be insincere and manipulative. Usually they want something from you, and they will break this news to you well after they are in your good graces. Watch how they turn on you when your answer is “no” or they don't get what they want. Suddenly their sugary words and attitude become salty or even bitter. Often the Sugary Fawners make you feel as though you are their best friend. This is often calculated, as they most likely want something from you or want you to do something for them. They often pull the rug out from under you either after they get what they wanted from you or don't get what they want. They will continue to be sugary if they think that they can get more from you. Deep inside, they really might not like you, but they are being overly nice to get what they want from you.
These manipulative tactics date back to infancy. The dynamic of many families is that of manipulating or “bribing” a family member to do something. Parents tell their children, “If you are well behaved, I'll buy you….” Children act cutesy in order to get a certain positive reaction from their parents, which results in positive consequences. If their charm doesn't work, they will often cry or throw a tantrum. Many people carry this manipulative behavior into adulthood. This is how some people deal with the world and with people around them.
They are insincere people who are usually backstabbers. They will often become “Trashers” and sing your failures and weak points to others as opposed to singing your praises and strong points. So beware and be aware!
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