Never Say You’ll Call If You Don’t Mean It!

I can’t begin to tell you the number of people whom I have seen with broken hearts, people who have literally waited by the phone for that expected call and never received it. Even if they had a phone answering machine, they sacrificed going out somewhere to personally pick up the phone to hear the promiser’s call. So if you don’t intend to call, don’t say you will! If you think that by saying it you’re being polite, you are not! In reality, you are being extremely rude and potentially hurtful! You have even elicited negative feelings in the person whom you promised to call.
In the same vein, don’t say “let’s get together” or agree to get together if you don’t intend to do it. It is usually taken seriously and can elicit negative feelings about you from the people you misled.